16 August, 2015

Educating myself on managing finance

Today can called a new rebirth for me as these past few months, I started to educate myself about money and how can I manage money better and benefit myself and people around me. It feels great to receive a decent salary from my own business. Using my talent and skills to bring me out of the situation.

Looking back past year, who on earth would be so insensible to give a stranger $22,000 just because he is in need of money? I truly learned my mistakes, there are truly scammers, liars and cheaters in this world, who can tell you sad stories to con you in believing their sad stories. Although I still have $12,000 to return to my father and sister, I am confident that I am able to deliver my promise for the next year and I will be debt free!

I can't blame anyone other than myself for being so naive and too trusting, thinking that it is real story. But I also learned to forgive myself and making sure that I will not be a victim any more.

Through this drama, I learn that how money is important to our daily life and we should respect money. Money can be beneficial to our needs, help the genuine charity organisations and give our love ones better living life. I have also put aside money for gratification to reward myself for the hardwork that I have contributed, to acknowledge and pamper myself and my family.

Why people lie and cheat?
I guess due to their poor upbringing, they have bad experiences and wanted to revenge or they found the short term benefits of conning people. These will not last and eventually they lost themselves. I do hope that one day, they will repent and walk back the right path. May they be enlighten.

There is such thing as karma, whatever these people do, they need to pay back whatever they have done. I may not have the opportunity to see it. It doesn't matter to me as I have learned my lesson and move on.

2 comments:

DReaMY said...

The importance of money and yet. ...it should not be the most important thing in our lives!
A lesson learnt. .money last bit yet a priceless gift of learning that can never be taken away from you!

Jia you my dear friend. ...
With love and support ...always ! ☺

Qiqi said...

I just had this realization yesterday.
Thought for the day:
Some "truth" may not be the real Truth until proven. Do not believe 100% what you see or hear. Analyse the situation, see if there are any loopholes. Lies will have inconsistency. Truth is what truly is.

Very useful learning for me.