02 August, 2008

BEFORE and AFTER marriage

My friend sent me this sarcastic email about before and after marriage. I had a good laugh after reading it because it is true in some ways. I can't deny that some couples just don't value marriage as much as our parents generation. Our generations just have a bad habit of comparing and complaining.

Should we start to ask ourselves what is point of comparing? Does it make us feel good? No, I don't think so. I guess most of the time, when you start comparing, it will make you feel much worse and lousy. Stop comparing and complaining, you will start to enjoy your marriage life.

以前提到結婚,想到「天長地久」;現在提到結婚,想到「能撐多久」。

當初會結婚,說是「看上眼」;後來會離婚,說是「看走眼」。

戀愛時,一見面就「親嘴」;結婚後,一見面就「鬥嘴」。

戀愛時,「情話綿綿」;結婚後,「謊話連連」。

婚前,愛情是「神話」;婚後,愛情是「笑話」。

婚前,男人經常找女人「討論」;婚後,男人只告訴女人「結論」。

婚前,情侶做什麼都是「浪漫」;婚後,夫妻做什麼都是「浪費」。

婚前,「謊話」都是「情話」;婚後,「情話」都是「廢話」。

婚前,男人像「傳令兵」;婚後,男人像「指揮官」。

失戀不見得是世界末日:你的心也許會「泣血」,你的荷包卻可以不再「失血」。

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