Someone said to me this "All of us is like a blade of a saw. We will either cut ourselves or cut others along the way. It is the process of cutting that brings the pain but it is also the same process that bring understanding as we cut corner and get to know each other better."
Even though I dislike the way he phrase it but I think what he says does make some sense... Sometimes quarreling does bring our relationship closer. Because going through these unhappiness, we understand each other expectations and get to know that person better.
Of course we keep cutting each other's throat with the same old issue over and over again then it defeats the purpose. Quarrelling should comes with positive feedback. It's okay to quarrel, but after quarreling, what have you learnt and how can we manage on each other's expectations.
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