14 March, 2007

Men cannot be trusted

"Men cannot be trusted."

This is a strong statement and this is quoted most of my girlfriends, be it they are singles or attached or even married. They wanted to warn me about guys. I start to ponder... if men cannot be trusted, then what about women like us? What makes woman be a trustworthy and faithful partner?

I seen too many unfaithful guys towards their partners but I also have seen gals being unfaithful to their partners too just because they want excitement. So being faithful is worthless nowadays? It's very libral nowadays that be it women or men, it is common that we have high rates of divorce rates.

Sometimes is due to our own pride and ego. It's hard to be the first one to say sorry when comes to quarreling. But if a relationship will lead to divorce, then why do they want to get marry in the first place? A moment of passion? Thinking that he/she the one for you but turns out likewise? Because they have been together for too long so its time to get married?

What is the real reason behind it? Only the couple knows the answer best.

Trust is mutual. Problems can always be worked out at the end but if you have lost the mutual trust and commitment and worse love, probably this relationship is never been yours in the first place.

So Just Let It Go.

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